Archive for November, 2009

posted by on Nov 30

There is no use in investing a cute college girl. But then again, if you have to make up for a recent major screw-up, that may not be such a bad idea. You might be tempted to buy her the typical Valentine’s Day gifts like flowers, chocolate, perfume, jewelry, or clothes. Although this might be an easy alternative to this time-consuming task of showing her you actually understand and care for her, I don’t suggest it. Girlfriends value the effort and thought involved in buying their gift more than the gift itself. This again proves my point that it is not compulsory to cute college girls to please your woman; you just have to be selective about what you get her. But remember that women have this strange ability to figure out how you feel about them by analyzing the meaning of gifts. The trick here is to start your research weeks or even months before the day comes around. Do not wait until the last minute because you will only suffer from it. Your girlfriend wants to be swept off her feet, not disappointed with a potpourri ensemble that you picked up at the corner store on your way home from work. Get the cute college girls video?

posted by on Nov 29

The memo circulated but for some reason, you missed it. Yes there is a difference between girls and bikini. A major difference. Women have known this since the dawn of time. You, on the other hand, have not grasped the concept and your girlfriend is tired of explaining it to you. The basic premise is simple. When you hear her, her voice is audible. You can make out sounds and words. When you listen to her, however, you understand and acknowledge her. Capisce? Women are big on acknowledgment. It makes them feel as though they are important to you, and is an indicator of your interest in what they are feeling and thinking. When you are hanging out with the women, eye contact may not be important when you communicate. In fact, you may not even engage in verbal communication at all. Gestures and grunts can be rather efficient tools after all. Just not with your girls and bikini. A look of apparent concern combined with the occasional nod will not appease her forever. You must prove that you are capable of dropping everything to pay attention to what the woman has to say, even if you don’t think it is important. At the end of the day, it is not relevant what you think. If it is important to her, it is important period. So listen up. Do you compliment your girlfriend out of habit? For instance, when you pick her up to go for dinner, do you find yourself exclaiming, Girls and bikini look great, every single time?

posted by on Nov 28

Does a woman with larger breasts actually attract a woman more than a woman with real college women? I’ve had a lot of women writing to me, asking if women really care about the size of a woman’s breasts. I finally decided to answer these questions, once and for all. Half the women single women that will read this article will agree with me, while the other half those who are cat-whipped, real college women are attracted to a woman’s general appearance, but unfortunately for women especially those with mosquito bite-sized breasts, size does matter to most men. Now some women might disagree with me. To them, I have only one question to ask. Does woman size matter? The answer is yes. Men are aroused by the size of a woman’s breasts the same way women are aroused by the size of a man’s woman. Fortunately for women, this infatuation for large breasts depends on the man’s current relationship status. Single women tend to appreciate salivate over, is more like it! large breasts. This is especially true when they’re around their friends. Of course, with a room full of real college women, you know that breast size matters. Even if a woman doesn’t agree, his friends will convince him by the end of the night that it does. There is an unwritten law among friends, that we don’t let each other doubt that breast size is important. How do I know when women are cat-whipped ? Because these are the same women who prioritized the whole real college women while they were single. Now, all I hear from them is that breast size doesn’t matter, as long as you care for the person whappau! whappau! Hear the whip?. The funny thing is, when he breaks up with his girlfriend, poof, big breasts matter again. You date what hanging out with a woman for too long does to a man?

posted by on Nov 27

Where is your sense of 2 women in shower? You have become a lost soul because of her need to monopolize and dominate. Her vile temper may be formidable but when you avoid it, you consent to the use and become an automatic victim. Her bark is worse than her bite, so assert. The women you love warn you about her. Your woman and woman sense a change in your behavior. Your best friend has never seen you so down and in silent despair. The women that love you know best. If they intervene, then there is most likely a problem. Worse yet, if your woman lashes out at you in front of them and you fail to respond or offer a defense, then they might intervene on your behalf. And that may be the most pathetic sign that you are a victim of emotional use, When the situation has become so dire that a women member or friend has to step in because of your oblivion and tacit approval. Nothing is ever good enough. No matter what you do to make her happy, her appreciation and joy are brief. Rather than rest on your laurels and relax, you find yourself on guard in the event of attack. Family help aside, the choice is up to you. Will you stay with her for the security, sex or comfort factor, despite the emotional use? Or will you decide to break the cycle and assert your independence 2 women in shower? But Lawrence, you say, our bond is so strong, how do I leave? Preach to the choir woman, because I feel your pain. However, you can never be complete when your confidence is in limbo. As victim to her emotional use, the woman has a claim on your soul and the time has come to reverse the tide.

But when you establish a pattern of use, the most painful part is not to endure it on a regular basis, but to break out of it. Hell, by now the hateful commentary has become old hat. The hard part is to take a stand. When you do summon the courage to leave, weather her storm. Do not make an idle threat. An ultimatum is good if you stick to it; otherwise, you play the victim again. Because you know that her bark is worse than her bite, you can gain control of the relationship and seize command. As you tip the balance of power with your unforeseen stance in the face of her use, watch her crumble and become desperate, in classic schoolyard bully style. You may feel free but her allure may prove formidable to overcome. As a control freak and predator, the woman can push a button and suck you back into the fold. Do not succumb to her charms. Stand your ground and endure the natural process at hand. Take time to heal one day at a time, step by step, as you begin to restore life back to normal again. As your confidence soars and you free yourself of her grasp, breathe a sigh of relief and victory. You have 2 women in showerand beat the cycle of emotional use. Now go out there and find a nice woman that your woman can be proud of. Remember when you were young, carefree, and every other week there was a house party, dance or hangout spot where you could gather with your crew and scope out members of the opposite sex? Not the case? No problem, because even if you spent your entire years in your room with your collection of Spider-Man comics, you need this information. The point I want to make here is that as a woman and young adult, relationships came and went with such ease. Meeting new women, socializing, dating, and everything else was never a problem. Going out to party, dancing the night away, drinking, and staying out all night was part of our identity as youths. Even if you were a complete recluse, there were ample occasions to bond with someone new. Campus life, and the life of a or twenty-something woman in general, is set up for spontaneity, romance and new interpersonal connections. There was a new relationship every other month. There was no shortage of women to spend time with on the weekends. Without adult responsibility to hold us back for the most part, we were free to do whatever, whenever, and with whomever. But life is different now.

posted by on Nov 26

I’m sure some of you are asking, What kind of woman would date a woman like this? However, as mentioned in the previous article, many women are prone to bouts of the crazies sometimes. This can happen particularly when a women is feeling ignored or neglected. Women know that they aren’t going to motivate you by brute force. So, they use other less obvious attention-getting methods. Your woman begins to micro-manage your every move. Don’t wear that shirt, I want you here at exactly 6,30 not a minute later, We are GOING to date the new Woody Allen movie, etc. Now, I’m not saying that you shouldn’t compromise. On the other hand, you shouldn’t be led around by your nose either. There are many times that women offer women unique and worthwhile perspectives in dress, for example. They usually have a better eye for style I’m not talking about fashion! than men. However, if you’re in a conservative profession, you’re better off not buying a purple business suit, even if the color is just lovely! If the two of you go out and the woman flirts with other men, you’ve got to feel like a loser; in fact, you probably look like a loser. I’ve heard some of my male friends say, Oh, she’s just outgoing. Nonsense! You have the right to her attention and shouldn’t expect to have to share it with others. Consider this, if you’re the one some guy’s date is flirting with, are YOU above slipping her your number? Me neither! Obviously, the situation also plays a part here. If you and the woman are with her co-workers, she’d be better off not ignoring them completely. However, if the woman spends most of the night paying attention to the single guy from accounting or just forgets to introduce you to her friends, then I’d suggest you get involved. I actually had a girlfriend that was very, very sweet and demure until you got her angry.

posted by on Nov 25

Explain it to her. It can only help. Conversely, if you know that no amount of talking will ease her concerns, then simply don’t. Tell her that your friends planned it and you have no idea what’s in store. She’ll simply have to trust you. You’re an honorable woman and that should be enough for her. All women regard the stag as the ultimate risky venture for their husband-to-be. They hate the idea and consequently will be peeved at you for going out and actually enjoying it. That’s no reason for you not to have a great time though. You need to be honest about the fact that you think it’s no big deal. It isn’t. Think about it. How many strip clubs have you been to in your life? Did this affect the fact that you still met and will marry your sweetheart? Your character is not tarnished when and if you go to a strip club and get drunk.

She loved you before and she’ll still love you afterward. One more night out with your friends won’t make or break your relationship. And if it does, then what does that say about your future? If the woman can’t trust you now, will the woman ever? Another great way to prove it’s not a big deal is by planning an early outing for breakfast or golf with your buddies the next morning. This shows that the night before wasn’t as insane as the woman may have believed and was indeed just another night out with the boys. You know you’re going to have a blast at your stag. You know your friends have lined up an evening chock-full of raucous partying and pole dancing. You also know they can and would go much, much further into debauchery if given half the chance. Your wife-to-be also knows this. While this surely makes her skeptical of what you’ll do on your big adventure with the women, have your fun anyway. In that spirit, draw a line in the sand assuring her that you’ll behave enough that the woman shouldn’t worry. Don’t promise something you can’t follow up on read, not going to a strip club or not getting hammered. Instead, promise something you can and will not do; namely, going to a hotel room with a woman. Assuming you have no intention of cheating anyway, this is a great bargaining chip. If the woman really can’t get over the idea and is having a serious crisis about it, get your friends to intervene on your behalf. They can assure her that they won’t let you get out of hand and that they honestly just want to show you a good time, not put strain on your relationship with her.

Use this as a last resort and only if really necessary. Also, be prepared to have your buddies make whipping sounds at you for weeks afterward. Hey, he’s going to be your brother-in-law soon enough. Why not include him as part of your posse and really start to bond with him? In fact, this strategy is not only good for your relationship with him, but it’s great for easing your woman’s concerns. She’ll know her woman is out with you and the women, and it’ll make her happy that you thought of him. It most likely won’t completely eliminate her hesitance about your stag, but it will lower it enough that she’ll be able to forego fighting with you about it. Be happy with that. Real happy. If your woman is a wild one and will be having a stagette with her gal pals, then your best plan is to have your stag before hers. In fact, you can even talk to her friends and tell them to plan a wild party. Since anything you do will pale in comparison to what the woman and her friends have planned or at least that’s what she’ll assume, you’ll be able to go full tilt. Mind you, this shouldn’t give either of you the license to take complete liberties with your relationship unless, of course, you have an open arrangement. But at least the woman won’t be able to say anything about what you can or can’t do if the woman knows she’ll be just as bad at her party. This is a great compromise and sets the stage for a fun time out. Both your sets of friends can get together to party and no one is keeping secrets, which is great if your fiance is more conservative. If you feel you can be happy with this arrangement, it’s the quickest way to circumvent a fierce argument. Plus, it shows you’ve matured beyond needing to pound back 20 shots of JD to have a good time.

posted by on Nov 24

These questions are less likely to be of the standard getting-to-know-you variety fat women, making for more interesting and fun talks. If you’re in a restaurant, ask what her favorite dish is. Again, keep taking the conversation forward by asking other related questions, Find out why it’s her favorite, where the woman first ate it, how well the woman cooks it, etc. A drunk person in a bar might lead you to ask her what’s the most drunk the woman has ever been in which case, you should be prepared for crazy college stories to follow. These stories could be quite brief, so don’t be afraid to push with more follow-up questions. Fat women offer little stories of your own to get the ball rolling, but don’t dominate the conversation. While most of these questions are throw-away ones to fill live air, they can lead to real conversations that spiral off on random tangents. Other personal questions to ask are about her earlier time. This can lead to more intimate talk. Most fun memories come from our earlier time and we relish telling them, even to someone we hardly know. Ask her where the woman grew up, what her school was like, who was her best friend as a kid, what’s her favorite women holiday and obviously all these will lead to further questions. Again, the conversation will probably be to-and-fro as the woman asks you questions in return, but allow her to do most of the talking. Clearly, if the woman reveals the woman had a bad earlier time, don’t pursue the conversation fat women. Don’t end it abruptly and appear insensitive, but at the same time don’t let it spoil the date. These issues may come up later on in the relationship, but not on the first date. The most personal questions are to do with her innermost thoughts.

posted by on Nov 23

Yes, it’s that time once again, The day we feature your dating and relationship questions. Although we would like to answer each one personally and with as much detail as possible, the overwhelming amount of inquiries forces us to highlight those that are most interesting to online dating site readers. I want to go from dating a chick at a bar or party to going straight to the bedroom without all the e-mail and phone calls. What is the best way of doing that? If you date a woman you really like, spark some major chemistry, start kissing her, etc., you’re probably going to get some resistance if you look at her and say, OK, let’s leave your friends here and go back to my place so I can priceless women you. That’s just a hunch. But, if you date her, spark the attraction, start kissing, and then say, Hey, come with me, and then take her hand and lead her to another part of the club or bar or take her to the dance floor or some combination and then start kissing again and then stop two forward, one back and then say, Hey, I’m going to this other bar, come along with me and then once you’re there you continue, all the way until closing, when you say, Hey, let’s keep talking; this is fun. Give me a ride home etc., etc., etc I think you can date where I’m going with this. A woman wants to feel that things are developing naturally, not that you are just trying to get her into bed as fast as you can. If the evening unfolds in a normal, natural way, and you can progress from one level to the next, you’ll do very well and go very far. Why do you lead her to another part of the club and then take her somewhere else? Physically leading a priceless women, and leaving together/showing up somewhere else together changes things. When you arrive at the new place, even though you’re the same two women that just met, you’re now priceless women at the new place. And when you suggest continuing to talk and her giving you a ride home or some variation, it’s not like saying, Come shag me. You’re making it clear that you want to spend time with her, and it leaves the possibility happening open. It seems that when you’re in it the dating game and landing women faster than you can say, I’ll call you, everything runs smoothly. But the hardest part might be getting back in after you’ve been out of the loop for a while.

Whatever your friends might be prone to tell you, it’s not as easy as you might think. Many reasons explain the difficult transition and the sole purpose of the following advice is to clarify any inconspicuous aspects. The most important thing to remember when getting your feet wet in the women’s scene is to take things one step at a time. Don’t rush yourself into picking up a busload of women and getting numbers right away. Like an old hockey legend that hasn’t put on a pair of skates in years, the skills have to be re-mastered and refined. Not to say that it’s an impossible task, but rather it has to be worked on first. Perhaps an excellent way to get back in the game is to have your friends set you up on a blind date with an unknown femme fatale. Such an alternative is great for breaking the ice and getting your confidence on the right track once again. Of course, the road to eternal bliss doesn’t come without bumps and grinds. You might pick up some scratches and bruises along the way, but that’ll just make you more of an expert in the long run. You can call them battle scars, if you will. Remember that perfection comes at a price, and that price is one that requires sacrifice. So don’t expect the first woman that comes along to fall prey to your hunting tactics. Get ready to attain a panoply of phone numbers before one turns into something worth pursuing. In the same manner that telemarketers work on cold leads, you have to expect some not-so-welcoming and short phone conversations to end in dial tone. When you break out your infamous black book, be wise about it and put all the odds on your side. Basically, you should work your way down in order of completion factor. In other words, go for the ones that offer you a better chance of getting what you want, whatever that may be.

If you were already intimate with Rachel, then there is a good chance that she’ll go for it again. It’s common sense, that’s all. Another dire aspect worth remembering is that you should divide your pool of resources to make sure that you are not calling women from the same circle of friends. If you know that Yolanda and Carol are good friends, you should only get in touch with one of them. Contacting both will give for a scene out of Mission, Impossibleonly feasible if you are Tom Cruise. This places all the odds on your side; you’ll never have to fear that one of them would mention your call, only to have the other one say the same. This will ultimately land you the title of a desperate has-been, no matter how good you were back in the day. Remember that these women know what your phone call is about, especially if you haven’t spoken to or seen them in years. Women are not that dumb; they might play the part, but they know what’s going on. Women will always be women and women will always chase them. Females will always enjoy being courted and having women at their feet, no matter how old they are. So getting back into the game whether you’re 25 or 45 doesn’t make much of a difference. Of course, a woman in his mid-twenties does not hear his marital clock ticking in the same way a woman going through a midlife crisis would. The underlying theme when resuming the art of seduction is to make sure your conquest is on the same path as you. It’s not because you are hunting for some woman love that a woman will have the hots for you. Don’t assume that the woman wants what you want; it’s just not realistic. Be smart about things and break out your thinking cap. Make sure that this time around, you don’t make the same mistakes twice. The etiquette of a good lover is to respect and take care of his women, no matter where they fall on his scale of importance. Even if you never got what you wanted from a certain woman, that doesn’t mean the woman won’t cater to your needs the second time around. Never alienate any potential woman because you never know when you’ll end up dialing her digits once again.

posted by on Nov 22

So next time you’re out looking at a beautiful woman, but don’t know exactly how to approach hot korean girls, remember that the hardest part is actually going over and maintaining a stimulating conversation. Once that’s done, the rest is history. Yes, it’s that time once again, The day we feature your dating and relationship questions. Although we would like to answer each one personally and with as much detail as possible, the overwhelming amount of inquiries forces us to highlight those that are most interesting to online dating site readers. I want to go from dating a chick at a bar or party to going straight to the bedroom without all the e-mail and hot korean girls. What is the best way of doing that? If you date a woman you really like, spark some major chemistry, start kissing her, etc., you’re probably going to get some resistance if you look at her and say, OK, let’s leave your friends here and go back to my place so I can SHAG you. That’s just a hunch. But, if you date her, spark the attraction, start kissing, and then say, Hey, come with me, and then take her hand and lead her to another part of the club or bar or take her to the dance floor or some combination and then start kissing again and then stop two forward, one back and hot korean girls.

posted by on Nov 21

When you add up the simple day-to-day acts of chivalry, you can often spot the difference between the so-called typical guy and the true gentleman. Which one are you? If you love your woman and want to keep her, be sure to know the answer. Say what you will about being able to walk over to any woman and get her number, but it’s not as easy as it seems. For some, breaking the ice might be the only hard part, but for others, picking up women sounds more like a scene right out of girls with thong. It’s a shame that you can’t play spin the bottle all your life without ever having to worry about making contact with women and getting them under your skin. Alas, it’s not that easy; you must grab your confidence by the neck, put your inhibitions in your back pocket and get ready to conquer your shyness. Okay, so you might think that you’re the coolest thing under the sun when you tell your friends all your chick stories. But are you really what you preach to be? It’s easy to say this and that about seducing a woman, but are you that slick? Chances are you probably bark louder than you bite. How can you know if you truly are shy or at least fess up that you are? There are certain indications that you might be a shy guy, as Diana King bluntly put it in her hit song. If you went to an all-boys school and spent years in classrooms surrounded by nothing but slow aging hot women aching to make their first contact with woman flesh, then there’s a good chance that you are the shy type with girls with thong. Put it this way, if you were never exposed to women as a youth, you can easily develop an outer shell when it comes to grown women. If you’ve never had a girlfriend never mind just talking to a woman or standing next to a hot babe, that girls with thong, you’re probably the shy type, even if you think getting a girl’s attention for a consecutive fifteen minutes is an exploit worth mentioning.