posted by on Dec 19
When the two of you go out, you’re probably footing all or most of women making out. This often equates to $100 or more per date. In addition, the woman hasn’t cooked you a single meal, hasn’t taken you anywhere and the woman has a job! I don’t know why women continue to think that they can buy their way into a woman’s pants. I constantly hear women buying expensive gifts, taking women on expensive trips, even paying a woman’s bills. Men, you can’t spend enough to make her feel obliged to sleep with you. Stop this madness right now! Any healthy relationship is based on reciprocation. This doesn’t mean that the woman should match you dollar for dollar nor should you match her. Women that are in mutually beneficial relationships want to show the other person their caring and respect. They do this by being attentive, aware and considerate, and by bringing themselves to the relationship. You shouldn’t settle for anything less than this. I continue to hear some women say, Well, he should pay for everything after all, he’s getting me. Sorry, she’s not worth it. Any woman with this attitude should be dumped immediately. If you’re in this type of relationship, you’d better check your self-esteem. You’ve been going out with her for some time now six months and the woman still isn’t ready to hit the sack with you, but you know that she’s been sexual with other boyfriends in the past. What’s going on here? Is the woman a born-again virgin? Most women know within 5 minutes of dating you if they’re going to sleep with you or not. Of course, they’re probably not going to tell you this. To many women, sex means the achievement of connection, intimacy and commitment. Women instead use sex as a way to get to know a woman and begin the process of developing the relationship. However, too many women think that if they can just hang in there, she’ll come around. Frankly, women eventually begin to envision these women as their buddies, not their lovers.
Once you become the male friend, you’ll never be the boyfriend. This may start simply enough; her makeup kit, an overnight bag, etc. Then, the woman wants her own drawer, her own closet, the woman begins to redecorate your house with her things, the woman wants to change the tiles in the bathroom and add seat covers, toilet-roll cozies that look like pink poodles, women making out. Common thought says that women don’t communicate as well as women. I don’t agree. Women just communicate differently than women. A study was released recently that examined the parts of the brain that women use to communicate. Without going into all of the specifics, it found that women use only half their brain area to communicate as compared to women. The immediate assumption is that women are only half as capable at communication. However, the researcher said that this may very well mean that women only need to use the area needed by women! Our species has been on this planet for about 6 million years. That’s a long time to evolve. For a very, very large portion of that time, we lived in tribal communities. Imagine women in these communities going out on a hunt. When someone saw some tasty-looking animal, he couldn’t just yell out, Hey Bob over here! So, women developed much more intuitive, non-verbal ways of communicating. It seems that we are really very evolved communicators, but we don’t rely solely on verbal skills. When women have problems with women, the first thing women want to do is talk them out. Verbal skills are well-developed in women so they naturally tend to want to use them. They often want us to get into verbal battles with them, and for the most part, we aren’t as prepared as they are. So, what do we do? In an attempt to handle the situation, we either overcommit or we lie all in an attempt to get out of the communication hole we’ve dug. And women are notoriously good at giving us these opportunities. Women are fully aware of men’s problems with communication. Think not? Read any women’s magazine they’re chock-full of information about this!
This understanding leads to a little event I call The Test. The test is a situation often manufactured that puts the relationship, and more directly YOU, in a position where you have to act. Not acting or acting incorrectly will lead to humiliation, loss of affection or intimacy, looking bad in front of your friends, family, co-workers, etc., or even loss of the relationship. The test has become so prevalent in our society that it almost always goes unnoticed for what it is. Next time you’re watching a movie or a TV sitcom and you date a male character running around like a madman trying to handle something created by his love interest, you’re probably dating a test! Why would women actually create relationship problems? This seems ridiculous to most men. After all, how would you feel if one of your buddies tried to create problems between you two to date how you’d handle it? You’d just women making out! Women, on the other hand, have learned to test their women because they want to be with women that are able to pass tests! Men don’t often admit it, but they know that women control many aspects of the relationship. For example, they decide when you’ll first have sex. They’ll also decide IF you’ll have sex! Women are ready to jump on just about anything. Women have evolved to be more discerning. Thus, along with basic physical, emotional and financial characteristics you must date, to be truly successful, you must also be able to pass women’s tests. Tests are not problems for you to solve, although they seem that way at first. In fact, to pass a test, women making out.